Comments on: Being Fat and Going to Parties http://www.talesofafatgirl.com/2007/08/12/being-fat-and-going-to-parties/ Tue, 13 May 2008 07:51:12 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.0.2 by: Arron Grandle http://www.talesofafatgirl.com/2007/08/12/being-fat-and-going-to-parties/#comment-11753 Thu, 27 Mar 2008 13:10:43 +0000 http://www.talesofafatgirl.com/2007/08/12/being-fat-and-going-to-parties/#comment-11753 i have the same problem with happy cakes. my roomate is so mean, he sits there making fun of me and calling me names like "a fat". i enjoy eating cakes and other things that make me happy, but when he's there making fun at me i go to sleep or there lack of cause i cant stop the itch that runs through my skin. its almost like a drug. what am i to do? i need help. i have the same problem with happy cakes. my roomate is so mean, he sits there making fun of me and calling me names like “a fat”. i enjoy eating cakes and other things that make me happy, but when he’s there making fun at me i go to sleep or there lack of cause i cant stop the itch that runs through my skin. its almost like a drug. what am i to do? i need help.

]]> by: marissa http://www.talesofafatgirl.com/2007/08/12/being-fat-and-going-to-parties/#comment-10163 Tue, 01 Jan 2008 06:09:46 +0000 http://www.talesofafatgirl.com/2007/08/12/being-fat-and-going-to-parties/#comment-10163 im also very fat and i wish i was waz skinny but id rather be a fat girl with a wide chest than a flat chested skinner girl YEA im also very fat and i wish i was waz skinny but id rather be a fat girl with a wide chest than a flat chested skinner girl YEA

]]> by: Chin http://www.talesofafatgirl.com/2007/08/12/being-fat-and-going-to-parties/#comment-9126 Mon, 03 Dec 2007 04:47:38 +0000 http://www.talesofafatgirl.com/2007/08/12/being-fat-and-going-to-parties/#comment-9126 Stop making excuses, go hit the track and weights, then go home and cook some good healthy food. In that 15 minutes you spent thinking about other peoples' impression of you coulda warmed up and busted out 2 or even 3 quick sets. And for the record, you don't look fat. But IF you feel that you need to loose some pounds, quit stressing and just DO IT. Good luck! Stop making excuses, go hit the track and weights, then go home and cook some good healthy food. In that 15 minutes you spent thinking about other peoples’ impression of you coulda warmed up and busted out 2 or even 3 quick sets.

And for the record, you don’t look fat. But IF you feel that you need to loose some pounds, quit stressing and just DO IT.

Good luck!

]]> by: Michelle http://www.talesofafatgirl.com/2007/08/12/being-fat-and-going-to-parties/#comment-8504 Fri, 09 Nov 2007 18:32:04 +0000 http://www.talesofafatgirl.com/2007/08/12/being-fat-and-going-to-parties/#comment-8504 I try hard not to be so afraid of "forced" desserts or the (usually imagined) judgment of others that I don't go out at all. I try hard not to be so afraid of “forced” desserts or the (usually imagined) judgment of others that I don’t go out at all.

]]> by: Kayla http://www.talesofafatgirl.com/2007/08/12/being-fat-and-going-to-parties/#comment-8409 Mon, 05 Nov 2007 03:22:12 +0000 http://www.talesofafatgirl.com/2007/08/12/being-fat-and-going-to-parties/#comment-8409 That's what you get,you fat slut for caring about those skinny whores' opinions. Who gives a shit what those asshole think about you? You determine your own reality,not them. Bitches! That’s what you get,you fat slut for caring about those skinny whores’ opinions. Who gives a shit what those asshole think about you? You determine your own reality,not them.
Bitches!

]]> by: Angie http://www.talesofafatgirl.com/2007/08/12/being-fat-and-going-to-parties/#comment-7359 Mon, 24 Sep 2007 02:20:48 +0000 http://www.talesofafatgirl.com/2007/08/12/being-fat-and-going-to-parties/#comment-7359 At a Christmas party last year, my aunt took a plate with cake out of my hands and said, "You don't need that. You're gtting too fat. If you keep eating like this, you're going to have a heart attack." After a moment of embarrassment, it made me eat twice as much. At a Christmas party last year, my aunt took a plate with cake out of my hands and said, “You don’t need that. You’re gtting too fat. If you keep eating like this, you’re going to have a heart attack.” After a moment of embarrassment, it made me eat twice as much.

]]> by: Chrissie http://www.talesofafatgirl.com/2007/08/12/being-fat-and-going-to-parties/#comment-7171 Sat, 15 Sep 2007 13:23:24 +0000 http://www.talesofafatgirl.com/2007/08/12/being-fat-and-going-to-parties/#comment-7171 I think it's really sad that people feel the need to force dessert and other treats on people. If I wanted some I'd have some. I think it’s really sad that people feel the need to force dessert and other treats on people. If I wanted some I’d have some.

]]> by: Deb http://www.talesofafatgirl.com/2007/08/12/being-fat-and-going-to-parties/#comment-6565 Tue, 14 Aug 2007 19:51:10 +0000 http://www.talesofafatgirl.com/2007/08/12/being-fat-and-going-to-parties/#comment-6565 Ugh I know how you feel. There is nothing worse than going to a party and feeling like everyone around you is judging you. One of the last parties I went to over the summer, a distance relative told me that I should start walking and she kept commenting on how thin my husband is. I wanted to wring her neck! I've decided that when I screw up from my plan I am no longer calling it a 'cheat' or 'screw-up' - I'm calling it a refeed. It's good for your metabolism to change things up and to "refeed" your body :) Ugh I know how you feel. There is nothing worse than going to a party and feeling like everyone around you is judging you. One of the last parties I went to over the summer, a distance relative told me that I should start walking and she kept commenting on how thin my husband is. I wanted to wring her neck!

I’ve decided that when I screw up from my plan I am no longer calling it a ‘cheat’ or ’screw-up’ - I’m calling it a refeed. It’s good for your metabolism to change things up and to “refeed” your body :)

]]> by: Rachel B. http://www.talesofafatgirl.com/2007/08/12/being-fat-and-going-to-parties/#comment-6558 Tue, 14 Aug 2007 17:48:15 +0000 http://www.talesofafatgirl.com/2007/08/12/being-fat-and-going-to-parties/#comment-6558 I find that the hardest part of going to parties right now, barring the fact I can't eat the food I want, is the fact that I am usually the heaviest one there. I find that the hardest part of going to parties right now, barring the fact I can’t eat the food I want, is the fact that I am usually the heaviest one there.

]]> by: Marshmallow http://www.talesofafatgirl.com/2007/08/12/being-fat-and-going-to-parties/#comment-6528 Sun, 12 Aug 2007 21:59:46 +0000 http://www.talesofafatgirl.com/2007/08/12/being-fat-and-going-to-parties/#comment-6528 Don't beat yourself up about having some dessert! Life's too short to go without it, I say enjoy that little bit a the right times, it keeps the binges at bay :-) Though I get you with the being judged by people I don't know - and quite often I stand there, frozen, feet rooted to the ground, too terrified to make a wrong move as so not to give the wrong impression about myself, but by being frozen, feet rooted to the ground, I am already giving everyone a wrong impression about myself. Bah! So much baggage >_ Don’t beat yourself up about having some dessert! Life’s too short to go without it, I say enjoy that little bit a the right times, it keeps the binges at bay :-)

Though I get you with the being judged by people I don’t know - and quite often I stand there, frozen, feet rooted to the ground, too terrified to make a wrong move as so not to give the wrong impression about myself, but by being frozen, feet rooted to the ground, I am already giving everyone a wrong impression about myself. Bah! So much baggage >_

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