Comments on: Making friends http://www.talesofafatgirl.com/2006/12/20/making-friends/ Tue, 13 May 2008 10:32:26 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.0.2 by: beee http://www.talesofafatgirl.com/2006/12/20/making-friends/#comment-317 Thu, 21 Dec 2006 09:33:14 +0000 http://www.talesofafatgirl.com/2006/12/20/making-friends/#comment-317 Awww that isn't very nice! Pity you don't live closer to me :) it would be fun! Awww that isn’t very nice! Pity you don’t live closer to me :) it would be fun!

]]> by: fat girl http://www.talesofafatgirl.com/2006/12/20/making-friends/#comment-313 Wed, 20 Dec 2006 12:08:41 +0000 http://www.talesofafatgirl.com/2006/12/20/making-friends/#comment-313 Moving around is always hard Melissa.. which may be why i usually keep to myself. Glad I'm not alone in my silliness though :D Moving around is always hard Melissa.. which may be why i usually keep to myself. Glad I’m not alone in my silliness though :D

]]> by: Melissa http://www.talesofafatgirl.com/2006/12/20/making-friends/#comment-312 Wed, 20 Dec 2006 11:32:25 +0000 http://www.talesofafatgirl.com/2006/12/20/making-friends/#comment-312 I TOTALLY get what you are talking about. I am 35 and yet I had those same feelings happen to me last week. I met a woman at my WW meeting and we started emailing each other, starting to be friends. I told her that if she ever wanted to go out for a coffee give me a call and she cooled to me almost instantly. I don't know what happened but apparently she wasn't ready for a new friend (I am new to this area, so I will ask anyone and their dog out for a coffee). I was literally wounded in my pride a little bit. I thought - "Why doesn't she want to be my friend? Aren't I good enough?" And then I thought - This is HER problem, not mine. She doesn't know what she is missing! We all get those feelings, though. It never ends. In your case, your friend may just not have great communication with her husband, so don't give up hope! I TOTALLY get what you are talking about. I am 35 and yet I had those same feelings happen to me last week. I met a woman at my WW meeting and we started emailing each other, starting to be friends.

I told her that if she ever wanted to go out for a coffee give me a call and she cooled to me almost instantly. I don’t know what happened but apparently she wasn’t ready for a new friend (I am new to this area, so I will ask anyone and their dog out for a coffee).

I was literally wounded in my pride a little bit. I thought - “Why doesn’t she want to be my friend? Aren’t I good enough?” And then I thought - This is HER problem, not mine. She doesn’t know what she is missing! We all get those feelings, though. It never ends.

In your case, your friend may just not have great communication with her husband, so don’t give up hope!

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